What do women think about sex? When are they happist? How do they communicate with their partners? These are all questions that Elle asked its readers in a large survey that they recently published. Now, bear in mind that these are readers of Elle who chose to respond, so it’s not the most scientific survey, but it’s still an interesting look at women’s pleasure.

Over 75,000 people answered the survey and overall, women are very happy with their sex lives.

Oral Sex
Women who climax more now than they did during the early days of their relationships receive oral sex at least half the time and say that they are good communicators in bed. Half of the respondents said they had oral sex the last time they were sexually intimate.

Trying new things
Half of the respondents also said they read articles or books to help improve their sex lives. I think that’s a great number and I wish it was more. Books can give us new ideas and explain things we’ve never understood before. I hope that some of those participants read some of my favorites like: Sex Toys 101, Sensuous Magic, and the Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women.
7 in 10 respondents also said that sex was better when they experimented. This included new positions and date nights. I bet if they’d asked, they would have found that these women were also trying sex toys. Maybe we can write to Elle and ask them to include questions about vibrators in their survey.

For more results, check out the full survey online.

When it comes to sexual satisfaction, countries where women and men are considered equal come out on top. A study by researchers at the University of Chicago surveyed an international group of people between 40 and 80 years old. The results? The United States isn’t first on the list, but we’re not at the bottom of the heap either. The top five are: Australia, Spain, Canada, Belgium, and the United States (64.6 % satisfied respodents vs. Australia’s 71.4%).

The countries with the least amount of sexually satisfied couples? Thailand, China, Indonesia, Taiwan, and Japan. According to the researchers, cultures that put more of an emphasis on procreation, tend to forget about women’s sexual pleasure leading to unsatisfied couples. What seems sad to me is that the country that invented the Rabbit Habbit (pictured) has the least amount of sexual satisfaction. Maybe they’re just measuring the wrong things?
Although this is an interesting study, I would love it if these researchers would look at some other things too. For instance:

1. How many people internationally masturbate?

2. How many people internationally talk to their partners about their sex lives?

3. What do the sexual satisfaction numbers look like for people under the age of 40? Are we “young’uns” any more satisfied?

What other questions do you think these researchers should be asking?

We aren’t the only ones talking about this survey. Find out what these bloggers have to say about it and let us know what you think:

JuliePatchouli

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Life of Brian

I recently discovered a website about a man who was given 100 ninety-nice cent dildos from a friend for Christmas. They’re actually vibrators but regardless, he’s asking people to write in and suggest uses for 100 vibrators that are non-sexual and non-destructive. Of course I think the contest would be just as interesting and far more entertaining if he included sexual uses, but hey, they’re his gifts. The whole thing has prompted me to ask some questions of my own:

1. Can you imagine having 100 vibrators? Where would you keep them?
2. Who would you give 100 vibrators to in your life? If the idea sounds like fun, go for something on a smalller scale and hand out some toys at your next dinner party, shower, or birtdhay bash.
3. Which Babeland toy would you most like to have 100 of? I think I’d love to have 100 Babelights or possibly 100 Finger Funs. I’m sure I could find uses for all of them.